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The Joy of Gay SexThe Joy of Gay Sex
Silverstein, CharlesSilverstein, Charles
Book, 2006
Current format, Novel, 2006, Fully rev. and expanded 3rd ed, Obtainable .Book, 2006
Current format, Guide, 2006, Fully rev. and expanded 3rd ed, Free . Offered in 0 more formatsFor a modern century and a brand-new generation of readers comes a fully revised and expanded edition of a classic guide to queer sex, love, and being. Featuring 50 new illustrations.
One of the touchstones of the emerging gay thought when it was first published in the 70's, and a standard reference for gay men throughout the 80's and 90's, The Joy of Queer Sex has informed countless men about the ins and outs of queer life, love, and pleasure. A full decade has now passed since the last update, and while the gay community has seen improved treatments for AIDS, more positive media coverage, new forums for the expression of collective, and more favorable laws, there continues to be an urgent need for this book's brand of positive and responsible advice.
Invaluable not only as a sex guide but as a resource on building self-est
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Simon & Schuster Advance as You Are: The Surprising Novel Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
The author of this book is one of the most epic sex researchers around. A must-read for folks of all genders, it's genuinely what it says it is: a "practical guide to the science of sex." It's filled with new research and tons of easy-to-understand brain science that will help you fill your sex with joy and confidence.
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St. Martin's Press Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Fantastic Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship
Written by a sex therapist who is also a medical surgeon, this book is about enjoying sex and intimacy in committed long-term relationships. This isn't a "how-to" book, but rather a resource to help you understand sexual feelings and how they connect to the rest of you, as a whole human.
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Bantam The New Male Sexuality, Revised Edition
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Butt Seriously: The Definitive Manual to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In Between (Paperback)
By Dr. Evan Goldstein
$21.99
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Description
A cheeky yet authoritative guide to anal health and anal sex, written by the primary anal health expert in the United States.
More people than ever are receptive to the pleasures of anal, but compassionate, medically comprehensive information can be challenging to come by. No more!
Whether you’re a top or a bottom, gay or straight, experienced or just getting ready to stretch your, um, imagination—Butt Seriously gives you the medically accurate, scientifically-backed information you need to keep your peach ready to take you to the height of sexual bliss.
This first-of-a-kind guide will teach you how to keep your anus strong, maximize your pleasure, and bust the myths holding us back around anal sex. Among other takeaways, Butt Seriously will:
- Offer comprehensive, medically-accurate sex-ed for anyone who engages, regardless of gender and sexual identity
- Disclose why a prostate orgasm is the best orgasm
- Show women how butt play allows access to their other er
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will consider bottoming at some time. However, the thought of doing it for the first second can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with huge dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can get douche bulbs online or from any nice sex shop. Strive not to move overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can craft you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay favor rimming or fingering. Some men execute use amyl nitrate (poppers) to unwind the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs prefer Viagra and may cause a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to loosen and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, whethe
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