Might not be this gay but dammit your trying
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«Sex! Secrecy! And a whole lot of internal screaming. Starring Daniel Howell. One of the greatest mysteries of our generation. What is Dan’s sexuality?»
Spoiler alert. I’m not straight. Sex, the foundation of life and the only thing we’re really supposed to do. Everyone’s obsessed with it. You bunch of degenerates. In the list of things that identify a person, one of the most important for other people to know is their sexuality. For, if sex is the primal force propelling all of these humans forward by their hips, they have to perceive. Are we gonna fuck? Or love could we? Or are you, ‘cause I’m just wondering. Now, we reside in a heteronormative world, which is a long scary word that makes people feel attacked for some reason. Shh it’s okay.
What it means is people are presumed to be direct. If you’re not, then at some point, you hold to “come out”, which is a whole thing. Or people might just try and estimate based on something you do or the way you act, because yay stereotypes. So this is something you have to be clear on, because if you’re not, how are all the
As we head into horny/vaxxed/tits-out/corporate rainbow season, I’ve been thinking a lot about all of the people who realized some things about their sexuality and/or gender during the pandemic. Maybe you got served so many videos from lesbian TikTok that you decided to do a little soul-searching, or perhaps you came to the conclusion that life is too short to refuse yourself the things you really want, or maybe you’ve always been uncover about being LGBTQ+, just not as loudly and proudly as you’d enjoy. Or maybe 2020 was just always going to be the year you stepped fully into your queerness!
In any case, there are a lot of folks for whom this summer will be the first opportunity to be out–out… like, in a more-than-theoretical, literally out in public sort of way. Just thinking about the beautiful months ahead—full of shimmering queer possibility, after a year that was so uncertain and shadowy and marked by a breathtaking amount of loss—brings me so much joy! But if you’re the one who is currently on this precipice, the moment in which you can finally emerge and feel the warm light on your gorgeous deal with might leave you feeling equal parts “yay!” and also “??????????? [panicked scre
I Think I Might Not Be Straight – So What Am I?
I have a very active Tumblr ask box.
As an out-and-proud sexuality educator with a faithful obeying of mostly young people, that’s to be expected.
The world is not gentle to adolescents and juvenile adults looking to realize the inner workings of their sexuality, and so when they find a personable person who has the answers – and can ask anonymously, at that! – they latch on.
And one question that I get asked repeatedly looks something like this: “I think I might be bisexual. I fond boys, but I also kind of have a crush on this miss in my math class. But I’ve never dated a girl before, so my friends say that I can’t be bi. I’m really confused. What am I?”
Or this: “I’ve come to the finding that I don’t notice romantic or sexual attraction to anyone, regardless of their gender. Is there something wrong with me? Is there something to call this? What can I do?”
All of these questions have two essential things in common: 1) They clearly state what their feelings and attractions are, and 2) their anxiety is almost entirely focused on labels.
People aren’t asking me to support identify their feelings. They’v